I Am Allowed to Grieve What I Have Lost
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I am allowed to grieve what I have lost. Tears are not evidence that faith has failed, and numbness is not evidence that love was absent. Grief may come through sorrow, anger, confusion, fatigue, silence, or moments when I feel almost normal. Jesus did not stand outside human sorrow. He was moved by grief, and He wept. Because He meets me with compassion, I do not need to perform strength for God or for other people. I can receive help, postpone unnecessary decisions, and care for my body while my heart absorbs what has happened. I do not have to complete grief on someone else’s schedule. God is near to me in this beginning, even when His nearness feels quieter than I expected.
Scripture References
Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens… a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance."
John 11:33–35
"When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews also weeping which came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled. And said, Where have ye laid him? They said unto him, Lord, come and see. Jesus wept."
Psalm 56:8
"You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book."
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- For personal reflection in the early days of grief. Suitable for grief support groups.
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